She likes country; he likes modern, but they settled on a space that suits them both.
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The place that becomes home after a divorce often reflects a need to rediscover aspects of one's self that may have been lost in coupling.
For Laura, a cheerful event planner who asked that her last name not be used, a 1,250-square-foot condo in Bedminster would celebrate single life and her passions as a dressage equestrian rider with a taste for country furnishings and ultra-girly pastels and florals.
Then the devoted horsewoman met Kurt, and after a three-year courtship, two divorcees realized they had found love again. But each had the accumulated possessions of their previous adult households, and it seemed like an insurmountable challenge to bring their things together harmoniously.
"We decided that this would be the better place for us to live," Laura said of the two-bedroom, two-bathroom condo where she had lived for five years before they met. "I had it decorated the way I liked it, and he had this giant painting." They needed to find a place for the 6-foot-by-4-foot abstract scene that reminds them of a river running through a forest. "To try to blend it with what I had was impossible," Laura said.
Kurt did not want to feel like a guest in a place that would become their shared home.
"I really wanted the place to be a representation of both of our personalities," said Kurt, who is in finance and has an artistic side that is attracted to modern furnishings and abstract images. The goal for their home, he said, was to respect their individual tastes while finding a way to blend them.
"We just had no idea how to do that," Laura said. "Mine was so country and horsey. His was so stark modern."
So they began to seek professional guidance. After interviewing a few interior designers, they settled on Theresa Ogando of Ogando Partners Interior Design. They liked her can-do spirit and the solutions she proposed. The dining room had one long wall, and on it Ogando envisioned both a place for the painting and sorely needed storage.
The renovation
"She sketched it out for us, and we loved it," Laura said. So Ogando called in Jeff Baumann to build custom cabinets with a niche between them for the painting.
"What she did was to paint the wall between the cabinets to act as a frame for the painting," Laura said of the bright blue border that, along with gallery lighting, helps highlight the artwork.
The new cabinetry, which features two glass doors, makes room for barware and serving pieces, freeing up space in kitchen cabinets where they had previously been kept. Ogando also picked out four chandeliers from which the couple made their selection.
The dining room has an imposing closet that Ogando felt was misplaced and wanted to modify to improve ease of movement through a small space. The couple decided to hold off on moving walls, but Ogando had other solutions to improve storage in the 1980s home, including replacing sliding closet doors with double doors in the bedrooms.
Aside from finding space for the painting and maximizing storage, the project involved updating the living room and a shared home office.
The couple shopped for furnishings with guidelines from Ogando, who specified measurements for the sofa and suggested a round coffee table. They were advised to consult her before making any purchase to be sure everything would blend well.
The living room would need large artwork to help balance its high ceilings. An assemblage piece where Kurt combined sea glass and stained glass on a recycled glass panel was hung from a cathedral-style window for light-changing interest.
A shot of a Bird of Paradise flower and another of black-eyed Susans that Laura captured in a photography class at Leonard J. Buck Garden were enlarged to 11-by-14 inches and matted for 25-inch square Pottery Barn frames. The cost-effective decorating move also brings Laura's photographic interests into the room.
For the couple's shared office, Ogando placed three white filing cabinets along one wall and topped them with a thick slab of finished wood. That made a shared desk with room for chairs between the cabinets.
"We couldn't figure out how the two of us could be comfortable in there," Laura said of the new work space. "It's now very efficient for us."
The redesign made it possible for two people to live comfortably in a relatively small space, she said. Her horse-related art is displayed in a loft area, and the decor now includes elements that please her husband. "We each came to the marriage with our own art, furniture and strong opinions," she said. "Both of us learned a little bit more about the other's taste, and I think we grew from it."
What they renovated
Living room, dining room and home office
Who did the work
Ogando Partners acted as designer and project manager. Flooring was supplied and installed by Whitehouse Floors. The custom cabinetry is by Baumann Custom Woodworking
How long it took
May to August 2015
How much it cost
$40,000
Where they splurged
New hardwood floors in the dining room
How they saved
"Working with Theresa ensured that we were doing things right the first time," Laura said. The couple also decorated with their personal artwork and photography.
What they would have done differently
"We'd have begun the project earlier because our new home brings us so much pleasure," Laura said.
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